How to make your marriage work and protect it

                                                       Chapter 1



How do you make your marriage Work?ummmmmmmmmmmm
some people don't really know why they get married  sometimes and end up marring the wrong person,
but the question is ask all the time every time,how do i make my marriage work, will you think your ready for the answer ,
WORK!!!!,yes work make's a marriage work it's very similar to your 9-5 job you go to everyday, if you work i mean,But for you none worker's it's like your life and the air you breathe everyday, you need it and without it you want it because you need it to survive,get it,(will let's go on)you have to fight for your marriage and be persistent,(female & male),Because you want it and with him or her you need it.why because of Love,So don't listen to family and friend's and what they have to say about you and your spouse ,because when they get married your not go to be close to there mind,near there mind or on there mind.
So do what you have to do is stay focus,Am married look at the pic for proof,(am handsome i know) and i could tell you about some thing's,I don't know everything yet, but i could tell you it is a major change  and if you not ready for major change and team work you not going to make it in the marriage world.

                                                                Chapter 2
I was a old dirty player had no emotion's when it came to relationships,i only dated women for a week or a half of a week and then,yes the D word,i dumped them not straight up cause a lot of them was in love but i wasn't ready for commitment,i grew up in a urban area with gun,drugs,cop car's every night,but i think i did good because i made it out alive a lot of people didn't make it out
and i mean didn't make it out,they all didn't die but,that type of life style is drugs it's self ,that kind of life style will lie to you and tell you are some body and make you feel like a king when you don't even worth a penny,smoke,drink club,have sex,catch a disease die,
But when you have God in your life you have hope,and when you have hope you have a second chance at life.
And i say all of this to say when you put friend in you marriage and family they will pollute and intoxicated and poison  your relationship,and it will die slowly in the front of you,you will start to think about your spouse and start saying things like,(i don't be around him all they time i am not stupid to give him my all,and i don't love her that much to die for her,if your not ready to die for her she must be the wrong person then.
                                                                 
                                                                         
                                                                 Chapter 3
The worst thing to do in a marriage is to get to similar and disrespectful with you wife or husband,when this happen it come along with a lot of stuff like.(you don't say i love you no more for no reason,you don't ask her if she ate after a long day,you don't show interest into what he is interested in no more, you lose respect,she sleep's with her cloth's on in the bed at night lazy sex,no more for play,no more sex in weird places like the movies,(not me just an example,lets move on)will some people really like wild stuff.

Keep the fire burning within you  for each other everyday,continue to find new things about each other every single day,kiss your husband and wife for no reason buy a gift for no reason,Guy's let her go shopping until the card melt,but be aware of one thing,she will forget about it all and  you give her the card to go shopping when an argument come's up.
so be prepared for that.and keep your cool and don't throw it in her face,

And especially for the women stop forgetting about all the important dangerous things your men did for you like, listening to your same boring story's over and over again like's it's the first time you told it,and agreeing to wanting a baby girl when he really wants a baby boy,going to the super mart to purchase Always extra large maxi Pad for you ,waiting in the boring hair dresser,allowing to have guy friend's  when we can't miss and look at a female walking By us or else,Watching chick flick's to the movie's just to satisfy you. That's work.hard work indeed.

But i have a lot of things to share with the world so hold on it's going to be a bumpy ride . 
                                                              
                                                                   Chapter 4
 How to make a Guy wait for Sex in a relationship,I waited 5 years before i slept with my wife
want to know how i did it,will  first i ......................................................................